Pat, I don't find you pushy at all - in fact those were very kind and thoughtful insights. When it comes to galleys, unfortunately, yep, I'm the final say on those, because I'm aware of the story flow and the details such that I can detect errors or problems in a way no one else can, not because they aren't wonderful writers, but because I wrote it and they didn't. But it would certainly be great if they could, because I know a couple of them have offered to help in any way possible - again, I am blessed in my readers and fellow authors in so many ways!
It will all work out - the good thing is my publishers really are very understanding at this point, so though I'll work hard to meet those galley deadlines, if I need a few extra days, I know they'll give me that breathing room. Production process is just the tightest turnaround point. The good thing was last night while in the hospital with mom, it is of course impossible to sleep in a hospital without huge amounts of medication (which she had and I didn't - laughter), so I sat up and read about a quarter of the SAW copy edit galley. Hopefully I can keep on that pace.
Like your new avatar, btw! Thanks again for the troubleshooting - I like that trait. :>